What is the difference between fetish and BDSM

“Fetish” and “BDSM” are two terms often associated with sexuality and intimate relationships, but they have different meanings and concepts.

Fetish: A fetish refers to a sexual attraction or arousal experienced in relation to a specific object, material, body part, or situation that is not necessarily considered sexual by the majority of people. This may involve clothing, shoes, certain fabrics, body parts, and so on. A person with a fetish experiences sexual arousal or satisfaction from the object or situation in question. It is important to note that a fetish in itself is not necessarily related to BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism).

BDSM: BDSM is an umbrella term that refers to a range of sexual and erotic activities and practices that may include:

  • Bondage and Discipline (BD): Tying up or restraining a partner (bondage) and imposing rules and restrictions (discipline).
  • Dominance and Submission (DS): Taking on the roles of a dominant partner and a submissive partner, with corresponding power dynamics.
  • Sadism and Masochism (SM): Experiencing pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation (sadism) and experiencing pleasure from receiving pain or humiliation (masochism).

BDSM therefore encompasses a wide range of activities that involve power dynamics, role play and often physical and psychological stimulation. It can range from milder activities to more intense practices, depending on the preferences and boundaries of the individuals involved. BDSM can include elements of fetishism, but goes beyond just fetish-related interests.

It is important to note that participation in BDSM practices should always be based on voluntariness, clear communication, mutual consent and safety for all involved

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